Text Size

Follow Rob on Twitter

18.07.10
Which is going to work best for you in making sales and winning business - a great attitude or a great strategy?
17.07.10
In Pizza Hut with my daughter Georgia and her friends having a 'make your own pizza' party. Great idea - try it with your kids!
16.07.10
Nobody ever built a reputation or got a referral by being vague! Certainty sells. Clarity sells.
16.07.10
BURDEN OF WASTED POTENTIAL: We carry many burdens in life, but the largest burden is living without using our potential. (via @MarkFritz)
12.07.10
In Brighton teaching some committed bankers how to win a lot more business through referrals. How blessed I am with my job!
23.06.10
There are lots of formulas and definitions of trust. Every single one comprises character, reliability and track record.
09.05.10
Listen to Rob Brown talk about trust, being liked and making impact on the Business Hub Radio Show http://bit.ly/ahdrq3
30.04.10
Meeting some great Nottingham people from Twellowhood: http://www.twellow.com/twellowhood/
30.04.10
#rbtip - linkedin, ecademy, facebook, twitter etc are like the offline, realtime networks. They take your time to make work
30.04.10
@richardbeldon Thanks Richard - looks like being a strong collaboration! will get 100 words to you by mid May OOPS MAKE THAT 1000!
30.04.10
@richardbeldon Thanks Richard - looks like being a strong collaboration! will get 100 words to you by mid May
29.04.10
@aspectimaging Thanks for the RT! What do you say when people ask 'what do you do?'
29.04.10
#rbtips Ever wondered where the phrase 'Elevator Speeches' came from? Here you are>> http://ow.ly/1EEIt
29.04.10
RT @pennypower: Brad Burton of 4 Networking 0n Working Lunch today http://bit.ly/bN5QE3
29.04.10
@LesleyEverett: Can Brown's Brand Image survive the fallout from yesterday? No - he's always struggled with the word 'sorry'
29.04.10
#rbtips The worst time to think of the best thing to say is as you say it! Smart networkers prepare good elevator speeches.
28.04.10
@RachelElnaugh Gordon's done a Gerald Ratner - a wonderful reputation-breaking PR gaff!
28.04.10
RT @SociusUK: "Our Similarities bring us to a common ground; Our Differences allow us to be fascinated by each other" Tom Robbins
28.04.10
@RandiBusse great quote. Even better, if you don't know the difference between you and your comp, your customers won't either!
28.04.10
@GrahamParkerPR to make people engage in your elevator speech, be concise, memorable, passionate, different & tell a story!

Why You Must Not Wait for Business to Come to You

If you're like most people in business, you'll do a fantastic job and wait for referrals and opportunities to come to you. This is because you have a mindset for delivery and proficiency instead of a mindset of marketing and opportunity creation.


Successful people are proactive. They win the business that unsuccessful people don’t because they do the necessary things that unsuccessful people don’t, like asking, calling, following up and networking. In other words, they’re active rather than reactive.

Business coach Nigel Percy recently reminded me that ‘doing’ is always better than waiting. Waiting contrasts with activity. Waiting is passive. Waiting for permission is asking to be told ‘no’. People wait for seven reasons:

  1. More clarity. What often becomes clearer is not your situation, but only your thinking on the situation. 
  2. Greater ease. Few things get easier in building your business by leaving them. Things get easier by you doing them a lot. 
  3. To see others try it first. While this applies to jumping into a cold swimming pool with a few friends, it’s different in business because you have no friends. They’ll happily go out to both create and convert the opportunities you’re waiting to see are out there. 
  4. Less fear. Perhaps you feel you might jepoardise the relationship by asking for the meeting, the business or simply the answers you want. Fear often increases when you don’t confront it. Many doors are opened and many a piece of business is won not by waiting but by pushing through the nerves and the fear and asking for it anyway.

    "Too often, the opportunity knocks, but by the time you push back the chain, push back the bolt, unhook the two locks and shut off the burglar alarm, it's too late."
    - Rita Coolidge
  5. The right moment. You can always take more time to prepare. You can always take an age to get your pitch perfect. Sometimes asking for business and pushing on to close a deal is like having a baby – there’s never a right time! How much more successful will you be if you're 90% perfect than if you're 70% perfect? Certainly not 20%.
  6. More signs. Need a green light? Nobody is going to ask you if you want more business or more referrals. If you're sat in your office waiting for the stars to line up or a booming voice from heaven, then you're doomed to a life of inertia and inaction. Which means poverty, lack and unfulfilled potential.
  7. More resources. Yes, you could increase your chances of making the connection with a desired prospect if you had a bigger budget, a strong advertising campaign, a hefty direct mail campaign and a targeted follow-up telemarketing campaign. But people are doing less with more, simply because they're taking action, asking questions and NOT WAITING!

There is only one thing that allows you to win good business and create strong opportunities while doing nothing, and that’s a great reputation! For everything else, there’s hard work, action and courage!

"Good things come to those who wait – but only the stuff left behind by those who hustle."
Nigel Percy

Nike have developed a billion dollar global brand around the strapline, ‘Just do it’. Perhaps you could heed those words and get doing it too! Here are the two rules for doing rather than waiting:

It’s not always about how good you are. People not as good as you are winning more business as you read this.

The time is never perfect. Sure, there are right and wrong times to ask, to position and to bring up, but generally speaking, to ask and to move is better than to dwell and to mumble.

If your reputation is anything less than world-renowned, or at least the 'go to' professional for what you do in your target market, then you need to be out there mixing it, playing the game and asking the right questions of the right people.

 

Rob's Quick Tips

 


© Rob Brown 2009. All Rights Reserved. To publish or reprint any Rob Brown article, the following must be included:

Rob Brown is one of the UK's leading authorities on business networking and referrals. He is an inspirational conference speaker and author of over 40 publications, including Amazon best-seller How To Build Your Reputation. Go to www.rob-brown.com for your free 60 page copy of ‘The 13 Commandments of Turning Relationships Into Profits', or get in touch on (44) 115 846 21227 or rob@rob-brown.com for details of his motivational presentations, business winning programmes and relationship-building resources.

© 2009 Rob Brown. All rights reserved. Site by Kent Kreations.

Login Form